I've poked around on the internets and haven't yet found anything where I've felt like 'THATS IT! THATS WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR!'
Other things we'll probably be having:
pumpkin or squash soup
some variety of sweet potato/yam something or other
some variety of stuffing (if you have great ideas for this, please pass them my way)
this fantastic black eyed pea/fennel dish
some sort of green (if you have a green bean casserole that doesn't have the things I'm allergic to in it, that would be rad! kale and asparagus have also been discussed)
I'm considering something with a lentil pate, but I really do need more ideas for the main dish; I really don't want to just do a bunch of sides
Thanks for your help!