i try to keep on top of this stuff, but as with everything, there are cracks and things slip on through. i generally wouldn't know that a worthy member has given up and gone elsewhere. so if you feel that you should be unmoderated, let me know! and feel free to poke me at any time in the future if you've been moderated for way too long. don't feel the need to wait until i make these posts. :-) i'm here for you! i want to make you happy.
also, i'll make the comments screened, so you don't have to feel self-conscious about piping up.